Monthly Archives: February 2015
Influx
Like clockwork whenever I am pretty darn sure I am leaving the world of self-employment, the surprise influx reels me back in. Today, for the first time in a long time, I saw multiple clients on the same day. It … Continue reading
Do you have sex with all your clients?
I’ve been asked this question a couple times in the past few months. I sense it may become a trend. Why do people insist on asking questions that they don’t really want to hear the answer to? Better yet why … Continue reading
3 lies men tell themselves…
Here is a link to a good read on how some men can get better connected to feminine embrace, get more sex and love. And be the desire of all the ladies. http://blackandmarriedwithkids.com/2015/02/3-lies-men-tell-themselves-that-keep-them-from-loving-her-better/ It’s a quick read. Go for it. BH
Friendly loving
I pride myself on rarely having intercourse outside of negotiations. It keeps me in check. I’m a far different person as a ho, than when I’m in normal girl mode. As a ho, I take no shorts. I will dismiss … Continue reading
A lesson in intimacy
Lessons Learned 1. STFU 2. Treat all men with kid gloves, especially when they are bringing you money 3. There’s a myth that sex workers don’t or shouldn’t have feelings. I’ve got few rules that allow me to do this … Continue reading
Conflating sex work with drug use UPDATE
The other night I spoke to one of my ho mates and explained to her my frustration with this situation. She agreed on my stance and stated that when people decide to continuously bring up the dark side of sex … Continue reading
Conflating sex work with drug use and other things you should stop doing – pt 2
I was extremely hurt by the assumptions that I was undermining anyone’s hurt within this industry because for one I was completely being misunderstood. Instead of engaging in a healthy discussion where questions are asked to clarify a stance, I … Continue reading
Conflating sex work with drug use and other things you should stop doing – pt 1
I pride myself with not being too easily offended. It’s what I think I will attribute to my long life when I get to the point that I can brag about living to be this old. But a few things really … Continue reading
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