Sexism and the power of the pussy

There isn’t a doubt in my mind that if men held the same power sexually as women did, that the majority of them would use it for personal gain. A lot of you know this personally. If you could sell your dick the way women could sell their pussies, you’d do it at the drop of a hat, unapologetically, no qualms about it.

Tonight I watched some ratchet TV. Love and Hip-Hop. The scene came up where Chinky and his grandmother, I mean girlfriend, I forget her name…Chrissy(?) were arguing about her doing what he considered to be a classless or sleazy photoshoot where she was bent over with her plastic ass in a failed attempt to be sexy (IMHO). Now I hate to body shame or age shame another woman, but she just doesn’t do it for me. Not that she or anyone asked, but I’m trying to explain myself here.

I found it rather interesting that Chink the twink was ragging on ole girl for doing this while he was confronted about it by tiny dick…I forget his name. Oh yeah Rich Dollaz. I mean this clown didn’t introduce this woman to his family after a two-year stint. And here he was getting upset with her for using her sexuality and new found fame in plastic to garner wealth and all he could do was spread hate. Then when he encountered her in one of those forced meet-up scenes masterminded by Mona Scott herself, he then went on to try and degrade her even more. I can’t forget how downright disrespectful it was when he said something to the effect of letting his boys jerk off to it in the studios. WOW.

Well my hat goes off to Chrissy for giving him the ole #byefelipe. Not only because he was utterly disrespectful in his egotistical approach. But because I always find Ho cakes like him to be extra interesting. Clearly this woman knows that her man is a dog. She said it in her rebuttal to him about the studio girls that he has sexcapades with. So I wonder how the sluttiest creatures on earth (men) can then fault a woman for using her sexuality for financial gain.

Insecurity.

Just as she called it.

I’ve mentioned to some young girls in my life the honest truth. The world will tell you that you cannot go far on your looks alone. THEY LIED. People from many walks of life have gained money, fame, respect and the kindness of strangers off their looks. When the world tells a woman that she cannot get by on her looks it’s an act of oppression. Female sexual power is so strong and so intimidating that society will go by any means necessary to try and keep a goddess from utilizing this power within her to garner success. They tell her that she should use her brain. As if using your gift granted to you by the universe isn’t a sign of superior intelligence. I mean think about it. If you knew that you could get a high paying government job because you were the world’s fastest typist or a computer geek, would you not go after it? It takes little brain and drive to sit on a gift and not use it. It takes a very aware person to know that they have the power to be in control of their life by using whatever talents or powers they have to benefit their lives. Sexual power is nothing less.

Too many of us view sexuality as some fleeting primitive exercise that we do in passing. This is such a dangerous viewpoint, as sex is the bearer of life and without it many of us cannot function properly. This to me is one of the primary reasons why some men go so far as to take it by force. It is one of our basic needs, that when not met, can make us lose our minds.

Women have literally made millions and have been able to support themselves using their sexual energy and it scares the shit out of the insecure men that they have in their lives or will have in the future. I remember being at the shit end of this stick many moons ago. I had the right mindset, but I was involved with someone so insecure and crazy that he stopped my career in the industry short. If I had the power that I have now back then, I’d have told him to fuck off and made due with my body and goddess energy.

Sex is a weapon that when used can change the world. In a more concentrated area it allows women to fend for themselves and I think that scares this patriarchal culture that we live in. We’d rather see a woman struggle at a minimum wage job, than make ends meet by using sex to get her ahead. It’s a twisted logic that aims to keep women back.

If women want to get ahead in this world we’d teach our daughters to sell their virginities and use that divine power to make lives better for ourselves. Now I know what some of you are thinking. Sell virginity??? Let me ask both the men and women reading this something. Please tell me what you got out of giving your virginity for free? If the answer is nothing, a lousy kid, a fucked up relationship, slut-shamed, laughed at, or any of the myriad of emotional and psychological traumas that can come with it, then you need to shut up. If you cannot say that you paid for school, bought a house or even went shopping for some new clothes after giving up your virginity then you made the wrong decision. It’s too late and you can try again in the next life.

This life is not a joke, and things are hard for all of us. Why would we rather see someone suffer and have a save-a-ho complex than encourage the use of sex to become successful? Whatever that means to the individual. From strip clubs to porn videos, do you think you can really survive or live in a world without sex?

Now the goody goodies might be thinking that they don’t want to do anything sexual to get money now because it may come back to bite them in the ass later. I’ve got news for you: While that may be true depending on what it is you will want to do in the past, the truth of the matter is is that it may not matter. The sex game is a young person’s game. If you do not capitalize on that when you are young, you may not have another high money earning potential in your not so distant future.

The world is becoming a more complicated place. And I have to say, unless you are planning on working in the White House as a coder not much may matter but right now. Also, you may have a great lawsuit on your hands as I firmly stand by the employment discrimination factor that takes place when (female) employees get fired from being involved in legal sex trades.

There are levels to what you can bear in this sex game. Find what makes you feel comfortable, but for the love of all that is good ladies don’t let what was given to you pass you by. It’s foolish to sit on gold and starve. The world is going to tell you a lot of things, especially when it pertains to using your prowess for monetary gain. Don’t listen to them! THEY’RE LYING! You can get by on your looks. Women have been doing it since the beginning of time. It’s your game. Play it. And if your man says he’ll leave you because of it, tell him goodbye.

BH

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One Response to Sexism and the power of the pussy

  1. TheVixens says:

    This speaks to me and the rest of the Vixens so well. Thanks for the amazing write

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